Fold each half-sheet in half to make a standing place card. Write a name on the front, or let each person draw a symbol instead. Leave the inside blank for a drawing or a few words.
Write one gentle prompt inside each card: 'A small thing that made you smile,' 'Someone who helped you,' 'A place you enjoyed,' or 'Something you are looking forward to.' Make a few spare prompts for the bowl.
Place a card and pencil at each setting. Before the meal, invite people to draw or jot down an answer. Explain that everyone can choose a different prompt, share privately or simply pass.
When there is a comfortable pause, invite one short story at a time. Listen without correcting or comparing answers. People can keep their cards or choose to add them to a family envelope to revisit next year.
A little help: Gratitude should be an invitation, not a test of mood or manners. Keep prompts optional and do not pressure anyone to share personal details.
